Divorce proceedings can be trying. Most couples want to finish the divorce as quickly as possible. Given the high emotions, they do not often find time to agree. The fighting can make the divorce more difficult. Because court tends to align with fighting, Forbes has some suggestions on how to have a calm and peaceful split.
You do not always have to fight it out in court. Often, court fought divorces are more tumultuous. Instead, consider a smoother process and one with a friendlier atmosphere. Mediation is one of the top options for couples. In mediation, you have a neutral third party who works to bring you and your spouse to a fair conclusion.
If you have a common goal in mind, mediation will be easier. Despite all your disagreements, you probably have something in common with your former spouse. One of these things is that the two of you want to move forward and resolve this divorce as cleanly as possible. Think about how you want your future to look and find out if it aligns with your significant other. You both want what is best for your family. You can put your differences aside for your goals.
When you work together, you show that you maintained respect for one another. Even when the split ends harshly or when emotions are high, you can still have respect for one another. If you respect him or her enough to stay civil, there is almost a guarantee that he or she may try to do the same. If you have children, then it is especially important to remain civil.